More and more couples decide to break their relationship after a time of bad experiences. It is often not as traumatic separation as a divorce later.

Although the separation is a breakdown of the relationship, there can always be reversed and that hope remains for long periods of time. There does come a legal divorce and you have to sign the papers, it's time to face a situation that in many cases it was parked and left unresolved. Appear many doubts and will suffer grief over the loss of that relationship or that couple. Until this match is made the break is not exceeded 100%.

Although many couples rebuild their lives in the waiting time in the legal divorce, the time of the signing of papers removed many experiences and memories and will be hard for both sides, especially if a divorce without agreement and one of members do not want the separation. Will the suffering and exercise the role of victim which will give you a little negativity and a resolute attitude when directing his new life.

Phase separation

On the assumption that physical separation would not have drawn the match and that you retain hopes of reconciliation, when it's divorce, the person will undergo a series of steps to help you overcome this predicament. Although the first moments are bad, are needed to examine the situation and to continue on with your life.

In the early days before or after the signing of papers, largely live in the emotional side, crying, grief, concern, questions about why the situation, recollection of past moments, guilt, etc. Once this first phase will begin a second phase in which the person begins to accept what happened and will slowly renovating their new situation, here come on the scene new concerns such as economic losses, material properties. .. Many people accept without a fight the details of the separation, thus losing much of their rights. This is because decision makers in an inappropriate time.

When we went through a highly emotional stage and we are depressed, anxious, etc, it is best not to take decisions because we can make mistakes, our fault or our responsibility to make us make bad decisions that we regret later when everything has passed. Cases like losing a ground for not fighting with the Ex-husband or feeling guilty about an affair, does that then the person is in an inferior position, no place to live and no money to which he was selling its previous floor.
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